If you're new to using a real skin dildo, you're not alone. Many people choose realistic dildos because they offer a lifelike appearance, natural texture, and comfortable experience. Whether you prefer Sliding Skin, Dual Density, or Tri-Density designs, learning how to use your toy properly can help maximize comfort, pleasure, and product longevity.
This guide will walk you through everything you need to know—from preparation to cleaning and storage.
Before You Begin
Before using your real skin dildo, taking a few simple steps will ensure a safer and more enjoyable experience.
Choose the Right Real Skin Dildo
Selecting the right toy is important, especially for beginners. Consider the following factors:
- Length and insertable size
- Girth (thickness)
- Skin tone or color
- Sliding Skin technology
- Dual Density or Tri-Density construction
- Suction cup base (if desired)
If you're new to realistic dildos, starting with a medium-sized model is often the most comfortable choice.
Clean Your Dildo Before First Use
Even though every product is carefully packaged, it's recommended to wash your dildo before its first use.
Use:
- Warm water
- Mild, fragrance-free soap or a toy cleaner
Rinse thoroughly and dry with a clean, lint-free towel before use.
Use a Water-Based Lubricant
For platinum silicone toys, a high-quality water-based lubricant is the safest option.
Water-based lubricants:
- Reduce friction
- Improve comfort
- Help protect the silicone surface
- Are easy to wash away after use
Avoid silicone-based lubricants unless the manufacturer specifically states they are compatible.
Step 1: Find a Comfortable and Private Space
Choose a quiet, comfortable place where you can relax without interruptions.
Creating a comfortable environment helps your body relax naturally and allows for a more enjoyable experience.
Some people like to:
- Dim the lights
- Play relaxing music
- Use soft bedding or pillows
Comfort is just as important as the toy itself.
Step 2: Apply Lubricant
Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both:
- The dildo
- The area where it will be used
Don't be afraid to add more lubricant whenever needed.
Proper lubrication makes insertion smoother and significantly increases comfort.
Step 3: Start Slowly
There's no need to rush.
Begin with slow, gentle movements and allow your body to adjust naturally.
If anything feels uncomfortable:
- Stop
- Relax
- Apply more lubricant
- Adjust the angle
Everyone's comfort level is different, so always listen to your body.
Step 4: Experiment with Different Positions
Trying different positions can help you discover what feels most comfortable.
Lying on Your Back
A popular beginner-friendly position that allows you to stay relaxed while controlling depth and movement.
Side-Lying Position
This position offers a slower, gentler experience and may feel more comfortable during longer sessions.
Standing with a Suction Cup
If your dildo features a suction cup, attach it securely to a smooth, clean surface such as:
- Bathroom tile
- Glass
- A smooth tabletop
- Hardwood flooring
Always test the suction before use.
Step 5: Enjoy at Your Own Pace
There is no "correct" speed or rhythm.
Take your time exploring different:
- Angles
- Depths
- Movements
- Positions
Many premium realistic dildos feature:
- Soft realistic skin texture
- Detailed veins
- Flexible shafts
- Sliding Skin technology
- Dual Density or Tri-Density silicone
These features are designed to create a more lifelike experience while allowing you to find what feels best for you.
Step 6: Clean Your Dildo After Use
Cleaning immediately after every use helps maintain hygiene and extends the life of your toy.
Wash with:
- Warm water
- Mild soap or toy cleaner
Rinse thoroughly to remove any lubricant or residue.
Avoid harsh household cleaners, bleach, or alcohol-based products.
Step 7: Dry Completely
After washing, dry your dildo completely before storing it.
You can:
- Air dry it
- Pat dry with a clean microfiber or lint-free towel
Never store your toy while it's still damp.
Step 8: Store It Properly
Proper storage helps preserve the appearance and quality of platinum silicone.
Store your dildo:
- In a clean storage bag
- Away from direct sunlight
- In a cool, dry place
- Separate from other silicone toys to avoid material interaction
Keeping your toy clean and protected will help it last for years.
Tips for the Best Experience
Choose the Right Size
If you're a beginner, avoid selecting the largest size immediately.
Starting with a moderate length and girth allows your body to adapt more comfortably.
Use Plenty of Lubricant
Using enough lubricant improves comfort and reduces unnecessary friction.
Reapply whenever needed during use.
Relax and Take Your Time
The best experience comes from feeling relaxed.
There's no need to rush—go at your own pace and adjust based on what feels comfortable.
Clean After Every Use
Cleaning your toy before and after each use is one of the easiest ways to maintain hygiene and extend its lifespan.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I Use Silicone Lubricant?
For platinum silicone dildos, water-based lubricant is generally recommended because it is less likely to affect the toy's surface over time.
How Often Should I Clean My Real Skin Dildo?
You should clean your dildo both before and after every use.
Proper cleaning helps maintain hygiene and keeps the product in excellent condition.
Is Platinum Silicone Safe?
High-quality platinum silicone is widely used for premium intimate products because it is:
- Body-safe
- Non-porous
- Durable
- Easy to clean
- Long-lasting
Always purchase from trusted manufacturers that clearly identify the material used.
How Should I Store My Toy?
Store it in a clean storage bag in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight and excessive heat.
Avoid storing multiple silicone toys touching each other for extended periods.
Final Thoughts
Using a real skin dildo is all about comfort, confidence, and finding what works best for you. By choosing the right size, using a quality water-based lubricant, cleaning your toy before and after use, and storing it properly, you can enjoy a safe, hygienic, and satisfying experience.
At RealSkinDick, you'll find premium realistic dildos available in a wide range of sizes, colors, Sliding Skin, Dual Density, and Tri-Density designs. Every product is crafted from body-safe platinum silicone to deliver exceptional realism, comfort, and durability, helping you enjoy a lifelike experience for years to come.